Where did your name come from? Was it a name your parents just liked or were you named after a relative you never got to meet? Or were you one of the lucky ones whose parents decided to combine two names and create yours?
When I was in elementary school, I remember my name was everything to me. I wrote it on everything and if there was another Sara (which there ALWAYS was) I felt like I had to prove that I was the BEST Sara. I would get mortally offended when someone would spell my name wrong and was fiercely proud that my name means princess.
Names must be important to the Lord because one of the first things we can give children before the Lord is a name and a blessing. Then, at baptism, we take upon ourselves the name of Christ, then when we receive our endowment we receive a new name, and finally when women are sealed to their spouses in many instances they take on their husband's name. When I got married and changed my name, I loved the symbolism of it. I was choosing give up who I was before, the name everyone knew me under, so I could belong to my husband. I legally changed my identity so that the world would now know that I belonged to him.
Why are names so prevalent in the ordinances of the gospel? Why does the Lord want us to learn by using our names, giving us new ones, and sometimes even changing the ones we have? If you want a fascinating thing to study this week, look for the roll of names in the scriptures and how we are taught with them.
In Helaman chapter 5 verses 5-6, Nephi and Lehi reflect on what their father Helaman had told them about their names:
For they remembered the words which their father Helaman spake unto them. And these are the words which he spake:President George Albert Smith (1870–1951) had this experience:
Behold, my sons, I desire that ye should remember to keep the commandments of God; and I would that ye should declare unto the people these words. Behold, I have given unto you the names of our first parents who came out of the land of Jerusalem; and this I have done that when you remember your names ye may remember them; and when ye remember them ye may remember their works; and when ye remember their works ye may know how that it is said, and also written, that they were good.
“One day … I lost consciousness of my surroundings and thought I had passed to the Other Side. I found myself standing with my back to a large and beautiful lake, facing a great forest of trees. …I was named after my great grandma and kind of my great aunt (she claimed me and was convinced I was named for her). Any time I am really tempted to do something bad I think of them saying, "Sara Evelyn, what do you think you are doing?!" Being accountable to someone who I know and can see their faces in my mind or feel like they might be watching, has made it a lot easier to avoid big pitfalls.
“I began to explore, and soon I found a trail through the woods which seemed to have been used very little, and which was almost obscured by grass. I followed this trail, and after I had walked for some time and had traveled a considerable distance through the forest, I saw a man coming towards me. I became aware that he was a very large man, and I hurried my steps to reach him, because I recognized him as my grandfather. In mortality he weighed over three hundred pounds, so you may know he was a large man. I remember how happy I was to see him coming. I had been given his name and had always been proud of it.
“When Grandfather came within a few feet of me, he stopped. His stopping was an invitation for me to stop. Then—and this I would like the boys and girls and young people never to forget—he looked at me very earnestly and said:
“‘I would like to know what you have done with my name.’
“Everything I had ever done passed before me as though it were a flying picture on a screen—everything I had done. Quickly this vivid retrospect came down to the very time I was standing there. My whole life had passed before me. I smiled and looked at my grandfather and said:
“‘I have never done anything with your name of which you need be ashamed.’
“He stepped forward and took me in his arms, and as he did so, I became conscious again of my earthly surroundings. My pillow was as wet as though water had been poured on it—wet with tears of gratitude that I could answer unashamed.
“I have thought of this many times, and I want to tell you that I have been trying, more than ever since that time, to take care of that name. So I want to say to the boys and girls, to the young men and women, to the youth of the Church and of all the world: Honor your fathers and your mothers. Honor the names that you bear, because some day you will have the privilege and the obligation of reporting to them (and to your Father in heaven) what you have done with their name” (“Your Good Name,” Improvement Era,Mar. 1947, 139).
I love what Alison talked about last week about the smoke stacks in Provo. How tall they were and how long they had been there and how quickly they fell down. I've been thinking about that as I have been reading Helaman 5:12:
And now, my sons, remember, remember that it is upon the rock of our Redeemer, who is Christ, the Son of God, that ye must build your foundation; that when the devil shall send forth his mighty winds, yea, his shafts in the whirlwind, yea, when all his hail and his mighty storm shall beat upon you, it shall have no power over you to drag you down to the gulf of misery and endless wo, because of the rock upon which ye are built, which is a sure foundation, a foundation whereon if men build they cannot fall.We live in the old heart of Provo. I think that I can safely say we have all seen bad foundations. In my last singles ward, one of the men's housing units had a tree growing up through their air vent! Usually when we think about poor foundations I think we have a mental image of the wise man and the foolish man where the complete house washes away or those smoke stacks being blown up. But cracks in foundations let things through...unwanted things and can lead to complete destruction.
Why is Christ the only sure foundation? How do we build on a foundation of Christ?
Elder David A. Bednar said:
Ordinances and covenants are the building blocks we use to construct our lives upon the foundation of Christ and His Atonement. We are connected securely to and with the Savior as we worthily receive ordinances and enter into covenants, faithfully remember and honor those sacred commitments, and do our best to live in accordance with the obligations we have accepted. And that bond is the source of spiritual strength and stability in all of the seasons of our lives.Going back to Helaman 5:12, what is the role of remembering in the gospel?
We can be blessed to hush our fears as we firmly establish our desires and deeds upon the sure foundation of the Savior through our ordinances and covenants (2015–A:46, David A. Bednar, Therefore They Hushed Their Fears).
President Spencer W. Kimball (1895–1985) taught:
“When you look in the dictionary for the most important word, do you know what it is? It could be remember. Because all of you have made covenants—you know what to do and you know how to do it—our greatest need is to remember. That is why everyone goes to sacrament meeting every Sabbath day—to take the sacrament and listen to the priests pray that they ‘may always remember him and keep his commandments which he has given them.’ Nobody should ever forget to go to sacrament meeting. Remember is the word. Remember is the program” (“Circles of Exaltation” [address to Church Educational System religious educators, June 28, 1968], 5).A good way to build upon the foundation of Christ is to remember him. I hope that you earnestly try to remember Christ this week and that you can see His hand and know that He loves you and is there.